Prostate Massage with Anal Dildos
So, you've read or heard about the wonderful orgasmic properties of prostate massage and want to give it a try. Perhaps you've experienced it (or other types of anal play) with a partner and want to enjoy it on your lonesome. Perhaps you have never tried prostate massage before and want to learn more. Prostate toys are one of the simplest - and most pleasant - ways to accomplish this.
Here, we'll look at prostate stimulators and how to utilise them to (hopefully) reach that delightful prostate orgasmic experience. Before you go any further with the technique, let’s talk about the prostate itself. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), the prostate is part of the male reproductive system and is located between the bladder and the root of the penis. It wraps around the urethra like a donut. This paraurethral gland is walnut-sized in younger penis-havers and plum-sized in older penis-havers. The prostate gland’s primary function is as a paraurethral gland that produces fluid for semen. This fluid has an alkaline pH that counteracts the acidity of the vaginal secretions, which helps nourish and protect sperm.
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The Benefits of Prostate Massage
Aside from an eye-rolling climax, other enjoyable benefits of obtaining or receiving a prostate massage include the following:
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Releases prostatic fluid.
Many individuals enjoy massaging their prostates, but it may also lessen their risk of developing prostate cancer. How? A prostate orgasm oxygenates the prostatic fluid. This leads you to excrete biological, fungal, and viral pollutants that accumulate in the prostate gland over time. Getting rid of these poisons boosts lymphocyte production. This is thought to assist your body fight off cancer, but more research is needed to confirm this.
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Helps with ejaculation prostatitis
Some people seek prostate massages because they may relieve symptoms of prostatitis. Prostatitis is a painful disorder characterised by inflammation of the prostate and, in some circumstances, the surrounding tissues.
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Psychological stimulation
Some people (OK, a lot of people) indulge in prostate play simply because it is enjoyable. Prostate massage can be "mentally and sexually arousing due to its taboo nature." Many people consider any sort of anal play to be taboo, even though it can expose penis-havers to new sexual experiences that result in strong orgasms.
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Relief from symptoms of sexual dysfunction
Prostate massages may benefit penis-havers suffering from sexual dysfunction, such as erectile and ejaculatory dysfunction.
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External versus Internal Prostate Stimulation
Stimulation of the prostate can be achieved through various methods, including external massage, internal stimulation via the anus or using specialised prostate toys.
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External Prostate Stimulation
Externally, the prostate can be stimulated using fingers or a high-intensity vibrator. The external prostate is placed in the perineum (between the scrotum and the anus), roughly one inch distant from the anus. Press forcefully into the anus and up to the base of the penis. You will feel a pleasant pressure as you press in towards the anus without getting inside. Rub this area firmly in circles until you feel great pressure, which increases as your orgasm intensifies. The prostate area is the same location that we will later stimulate with a toy. Masturbate with your other hand while continuing to apply circular pressure.
When you're almost ready to orgasm, you can either increase the pressure until you do, or you can switch to another sort of play. This type of orgasm feels fantastic, but it can get even better. For some people, having their prostate milked from the inside feels even better.
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Internal Prostate Stimulation
When performing an internal prostate massage, you should be completely aroused. Begin by inserting your fingers or an item until you reach three inches inside your rectum. Remember to reach up to the penis. Feel for a little ridged patch the size of a kidney bean. After you've located the prostate using your fingertips, you can use a toy to find the same location. Determine the specific location where you experience prostate pressure. This manner, you can find it again with a prostate toy.
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Prostate Massage: A Step-by-Step Guide to Getting Started
Are you ready to give prostate play a try? Here's a step-by-step approach to hitting the male G-spot.
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Relax
The first and most vital step in any form of anal activity is to relax. When you begin this voyage of self-discovery, do anything you can to relax: a nice hot bath, self-massage, mood music - whatever it takes! This is especially crucial if you're new to this.
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Wash up
Next, properly clean yourself, particularly around the anus, to the point where you feel most comfortable. Some people use only soap and water, while others provide an enema. It's all up to you. And if you have any back concerns, such as anal fissures or haemorrhoids, you should certainly postpone your play until those are resolved.
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Set the mood.
You should get ready for two things at this point: masturbation and anal play. Getting aroused is essential for not just stimulating oneself, but also identifying the prostate. You'll need a towel to lie on, something to establish the mood, such as pornography, silicone lubricant, and a prostate toy.
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Get aroused.
It's time to start becoming excited. Watch some porn or start doing whatever sexually stimulating activities you enjoy. Get an erection and raise your level of arousal to around six (assuming 10 is orgasm).
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Lube it up.
Now, take out the lubricant and apply it liberally around and into your anus with a well-lubricated finger. Not sure which lube to use? Check out these recommendations for which lubes to use during anal intercourse.
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Insert a finger.
Start carefully inserting your finger into the second knuckle and masturbating again. Pull the finger from your backdoor and reapply some lubrication. Continue masturbating and insert your finger back inside.Insert your finger deeper until you feel a small scratchy bump around three inches into your rectum, close to the base of the penis. This is your prostate. You're on your way to a prostate massage with a toy.
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How to Hit the P-Spot Using a Dildo, Prostate Massager, or Other Sex Toy
Now that you understand where your prostate is and how it feels, it's time to stimulate it with a toy. At this moment, you should feel both calm and stimulated. You've used your finger to identify and warm up your prostate, and you have a general concept of what you're looking for. Sex gadgets developed for prostate stimulation might make it easier to access and stimulate the prostate. They can provide steady pressure and frequently have multiple vibrating levels for enhanced enjoyment.
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How to Massage Your Prostate with a Dildo
The following are the steps for having a prostate orgasm using a dildo:
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Begin with masturbation.
Begin masturbation by stroking your prostate from the outside with your vibrator set to a high setting. While you're at it, check out these seven amazing penis masturbation techniques.
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Lubricate the anus and dildo
When you're completely erect, lube your anus and dildo with silicone lubricant. Insert the dildo.
Slowly insert the toy inside and up to your prostate. As long as you are sexually aroused, the prostate will enlarge.
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Move the dildo around to find the proper position.
Move the toy up towards the area where you felt pressure earlier when you used your finger to locate your prostate.
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Place the device on your prostate and masturbate.
Rest the dildo on the prostate and, if the toy vibrates, activate it. Take your time and examine the prostate with various vibrations, pressures, and motions. Many people believe they can orgasm just from prostate play, but feel free to involve the penis as well.
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Try circular motions
At the moment you are beyond stopping, put increasing pressure on the prostate. Use a circular motion to help bring you to orgasm.
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How to massage your prostate with a prostate massager
Toys typically used for this form of play include prostate massagers or stimulators. These toys are bent to target the prostate and frequently include vibration or other elements for further stimulation. This implies that you won't have to do much but sit back and enjoy the journey.
To massage the prostate with a prostate massager, perform many of the same actions as using a dildo, such as masturbating and adding lubrication to the anus and prostate massager. Then, follow these steps:
- Place the massager in the anus.
- Start carefully to allow the muscles to relax before inserting the prostate massager safely.
- Take time to locate the prostate.
- Once the prostate massager is inside, take the time to locate and stimulate the prostate.
- Explore the prostate.
From there, experiment with different motions and intensities to induce a prostate orgasm. Do not be scared to explore or feel rushed to reach the Big O. Each prostate toy has unique strengths and weaknesses, so give yourself time to experiment and discover out how to make it work for you.
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Prostate Massage and Other Toys
Don't feel confined when trying out different prostate toys; there are numerous options available. There are a range of sex toys developed expressly for prostate stimulation, including prostate massagers (typically curved or slanted to target the prostate directly), anal beads (stimulate the prostate when entered or removed), and curved dildos or vibrators. In addition, we recommend fingertip vibrators, which are affordable and versatile! You apply it to your fingertip to provide more stimulation during prostate digital penetration.
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How to Safely Perform Prostate Massages
When engaging in prostate play, it is critical that all partners take safety steps to avoid damage and other complications.
Here are some suggestions for safe prostate play:
- Ensure that all toys are cleaned and stored correctly.
- To prevent bacterial growth, toys should be completely cleaned and stored. Dirty toys can raise the risk of STIs and blood illnesses. This is especially critical during anal play.
- Use lube
- Always use enough of lubrication as the anus does not self-lubricate.
- Make sure the muscles are relaxed.
- To avoid pain when inserting toys, relax the muscles around the anus.
- Start slowly and be patient.
- It's likely that the recipient may be overwhelmed or oversensitive to the feelings and entire experience, so they may not have an orgasm or need to quit partway through.
- Use toys that can easily be pulled out of the anus
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Using a toy with a flared base or retrieval cord is recommended for simple removal and to avoid the toy from becoming lost inside the rectum. Only use toys meant for anal play. Other toys, such as those intended for vaginal use, may lack a wide enough base to keep the object from being sucked into the rectum. Trust us when we say you don't want to have to go to the emergency room for this issue. Sex gadgets developed for prostate stimulation can improve the experience by applying targeted pressure and vibration directly to the prostate.
They can let people experience diverse feelings and even heighten orgasms.
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Nexus Simul8: Stroker Edition
This revolutionary prostate massager targets four erogenous zones simultaneously: the penis, testicles, perineum, and prostate. The inside section also features a stroking tip that rocks back and forth across the prostate for an overpowering experience (in a good way!). The cock ring maintains an extremely hard erection, while the stroker pushes you beyond the limit.
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Nexus Simul8
You might be wondering why this product is on the list twice. This version is unique, but not inferior! Like the version above, this prostate toy targets four erogenous zones, but instead of a stroking tip, it has two powerful vibrating motors.
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Lovense Edge II
Do you want to customise your prostate play experience? The Lovense Edge 2 has a bendable shaft that can be adjusted to any angle, and it can be coupled with an app to create bespoke vibration patterns and unique playing experiences. Oh, and did we mention it includes two of the largest vibration motors on the market?
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Fun Factory Limba Flex
If you're new to prostate play, the Limba Flex might be the best option. Its flexible construction makes it simple to enter and bend to the form required to locate your prostate and establish what works best for you. This toy also features a suction cup base and functions well with a strap-on harness. In other words, it offers a variety of possibilities!
There are numerous ways to stimulate the prostate, but adding a toy to the mix simply enhances the climax and provides diversity. Prostate massage is a completely new experience that can result in one of the most satisfying orgasms you've ever had. It's also beneficial for your health. So what are you waiting for?
Oh, and once you discover and love your prostate. You might be ready for partner play.