Masturbation Tips: Using Your Vulva To Give Yourself An Earth Shattering Orgasm

With May being masturbation month, in today’s blog, we are going to look at masturbation tips for people with vaginas. Now the vagina is actually the internal part, the external part is called the vulva, so let's get that right straight off the bat. 

Now there are tonnes of pleasurable nerve endings in that entire area, and a lot of them are concentrated in the clitoris, which is on the outside part of the vulva. 

1). Make Sure You Use Lube

Our number one tip for anyone with a vagina, when it comes to masturbation, is to use lube. Now it doesn't matter your age, your sexuality, how you identify, or who you like to go to bed with, lube is the way to go. 

So what are the benefits of lube? Well, they're great for a quicker solo session. They are slick and it reduces friction so you feel more pleasure. Lubrication is the key to sexual happiness.

One little tip we have when it comes to buying lube is to buy one with a pump. The reason for this is that if you're midway through a session, and you just need a little bit more lube, you don't have to worry about fumbling around trying to take a lid off. You can simply just do a little pump and away you go.

When it comes to lubes, it is best to go with water-based varieties. The main reason for this is that they are safe to use with all kinds of sex toys, and condoms as well, so it really is a fantastic all rounder. It will also absorb into your body naturally because it's water-based, so number one tip, use some lube.

2). Bullet Vibrators

Our second tip comes in the form of a bullet vibrator. Now if you own a vagina, chances are that your most preferred form of stimulation will be externally. As mentioned earlier, there is a tonne of nerve endings in the clitoris, and for a lot of people, is the best part to stimulate, which is why a bullet vibrator is your best option. 

Bullet vibrators are excellent sex toys and are great for external stimulation. Of course, you can also use them on other body parts, but they are predominantly designed for use on the clitoris. Bullet vibrators come in a really petite form, so they are nice and discreet, and easy to use. They also have a tapered tip, so you can get precision stimulation should you need it. If not, you can use the side of the toy for something a little more gentle.

So if you’re looking for a bullet vibrator that’s going to give you super-charged orgasms and the Charged Positive Vibe by Screaming O is just that vibrator. The Charged Positive offers 20 deep, rumbling, penetrating vibration functions that will satisfy even the most seasoned sex toy aficionado. Being USB rechargeable, the Charged Positive gives you more than 60 minutes of powerful vibes!

Positive Charge Bullet Vibe by Screaming O

The Charged Positive Vibe has a unique handle for easier control during use. Simply hold the narrow part of the handle between your index and middle finger, about where the knuckle is, for a comfortable, snug grip. 

A 100% waterproof rechargeable massager with a unique low-pitch motor and angled tip designed for a dramatically different pleasure experience, also makes the Charged Positive easy to clean!

3). Erotic Fiction

Okay, so we've spoken about the external ways you can stimulate yourself, but we haven't really thought about the internal ways, and by that we mean your mind, which is actually the biggest erotic organ that you own. 

So with that in mind, you should also consider some erotic fiction. Erotic books are fantastic because they help to get your imagination going and they can give you some great ideas for sexy scenarios. They're actually more discreet than an out-and-out sex toy.

You could leave a book on your bedside table, or be reading it on public transport, and no one will really know what you're reading. Better yet, you could even download a copy onto a tablet or e-reader for the ultimate in secret sexy scenarios. 

4). Satisfyer Pro G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator

Before we move on to our final sex toy tip for masturbation with people with a vagina, it is important to mention that there are, of course, other erotic areas of the body. We actually have a tonne of erogenous zones, and each one of us has a different makeup when it comes to what we find pleasurable. 

You can enjoy having a tonne of fun finding out what your erogenous zones are, like earlobes, scalp, back of the knees and even your feet. So, masturbation isn't all about the clitoris, there are other internal zones that feel really good when stimulated, such as the G-spot. 

The G-spot is located around about two inches inside your vagina on the front wall, but it can be quite tricky to find which is why sex toys come in very handy indeed. And one of the best ways to locate the G-spot is with the Satisfyer Pro G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator. 

The Satisfyer Pro G-Spot Rabbit was developed to include the unique feeling of clitoral pressure wave stimulation with an additional G-spot massage. The ergonomic shape and silky-soft silicone cover of the Pro G-Spot ensure that it sits comfortably in your hand. The flexible, elegantly curved shaft clings skilfully to your curves and seeks your G-spot with a voluminous tip containing a powerful motor. A pleasurable bouquet of 3 vibration intensities and 7 rhythms provides you with deep vaginal vibes that will leave you howling in ecstasy.

Meanwhile, the clitoral stimulator caresses your love bead with sensual pressure wave stimulation. The round silicone attachment encircles your clitoris as you are brought to a touch-free climax. This gives you a sensation similar to that of oral stimulation.

The Satisfyer Pro G-Spot is also extremely quiet, although it may well coax a few noises out of you! The waterproof finish means that it is also the ideal bathing companion, inviting you to enjoy sensual pleasures in the shower or bath.

Don’t forget to use a good quality water-based lube on the toy and yourself, before gently and slowly inserting it, and then use a rocking sensation to find your perfect angle. Also do make sure after each and every use that you give it a clean as well, just so it's nice and hygienic for the next time you want to use it.

So there you have it, our top masturbation tips for the ladies out there. If you are looking for the best range of sex toys for women to help you broaden your sexual horizons, then please feel free to drop in to one of our stores or call us today on 1800 666 069. We are always here to help!