How To Use a Strapless Strap-On: A Sex Guide for Couples

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How To Use a Strapless Strap-On: A Sex Guide for Couples

Do you want to try something new? But you don't know how to utilise a strapless strap-on. They are commonly utilised by lesbian couples, non-binary people, and cis-hetero couples due to their versatility.

They can be used for gender affirmation, vaginal penetration, pegging, or for personal usage. Strapless strap-ons are for everybody interested, so let's look at how they vary from standard strap-ons and how to use them.

Hey, see, no straps!

First, how does a strapless strap-on differ from other strap-ons? Strapless strap-ons, as the name implies, lack straps and harnesses seen on typical strap-ons. When worn, part of the strapless strap-on is placed into the individual's vagina (often referred to as the bulb), while the other portion is intended to penetrate another person, either vaginally or anally.

The main objective of strapless strap-ons is to eliminate the need for straps and harnesses since the toy is held in place by the pelvic floor muscles.

Benefits of strapless strap-ons

Simultaneous penetration, or enjoyment for both parties at the same moment!
Reduce pain caused by harnesses (typically on the mons pubis, or mound over the vulva).
There is less 'equipment' to carry, clean, and maintain.
They vary in size, vibration, form, and so on.
Gender-affirming

Step-by-Step Guide: How To Use A Strapless Strap On

Following step-by-step directions may appear 'un-sexy,' but they do address your burning question of how to use a strapless strap-on.

Preparing to utilise a strapless strap-on:

#1 Purchase Your New Strapless Strap-On (and Some Compatible Lubricant!)

Congratulations for opting to try a strapless strap-on! When choosing a strapless strap-on, think about size, shape, function, and even colour, if that's important to you.

When choosing a lubricant, bear in mind that silicone toys require water-based lubricants. Do not use oil or silicone-based lubricants since they will harm the toy's materials.

#2 Talk with your partner(s) to establish your boundaries using your new toy

Before engaging in a new or familiar sex activity, it's important to check in and establish limits. It also provides an opportunity to fantasise together and develop anticipation.

#3 Clean and charge the toy.

The first step after opening your toy (after gushing over it and doing a joyful dance of delight) is to clean it according to the directions on the package or website.
Many strapless strap-ons are constructed of silicone, which can be cleaned using toy cleaning (or mild unscented soap) and water. You may either pat dry with a cotton cloth (or a clean cotton tee shirt) or allow to air dry. However, your toy may come with special instructions, so check the packaging!
Next, recharge your toy. Some toys might take many hours to completely charge, so check your handbook for specifics.

#4 Get to Know Your Toy

Learning all of the capabilities and complexities of your new toy will help you avoid awkwardness and confusion while you're hot, heavy, and 'in the moment.' You won't need to experiment with buttons if you already know the settings you want and how to make your toy operate. You could even want to check out your toy on your own before using it with someone else. This will give you a sense of how it feels and suits your body.

Using the strapless strap-on

Now, let's get to the fun stuff ;)

#1 Create a positive attitude and setting.

There may be some nervousness about using a new toy or performing a new act; light a candle, put on your favourite sexy time sounds, and get caught up in the mood lighting and the moment.

#2 Warm up your body.

You've prepared your device; now prepare your body with plenty of lubrication and non-penetrative activities.

#3 Go for it!

The wearer should just insert the bulb and enjoy. There may be a time of adjustment while wearing a strapless strap-on, so be patient and try things out.

Consider your positioning

Since we're learning how to go strapless, you should consider gravity's role here. Consider the situations you and your companion will be in. Since gravity may be working against you (without the strap), ease of usage is all about placement.

To ease your first time wearing a strapless strap-on, consider cowgirl (with one person riding on top) or spooning (approaching from the side). These postures will need less of your pelvic floor muscles.

Troubleshooting a strapless strap-on: "It keeps falling out!"

This is the major criticism or problem with strapless strap-ons. Here are a few tips for using a strapless strap-on if it keeps slipping out:

Try a new position where gravity works in your favour. Doggystyle and missionary rely largely on the wearer's pelvic strength; try cowgirl or spooning.
The bulb may be too tiny for the individual using the strapless strap-on. Consider a bigger one.
If it's comfortable, apply a little less lubrication.
Strengthen your pelvic floor muscles (but see a healthcare expert first, since these exercises are not for everyone).
Include a harness of some type.

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