Guide To Prostate Massage

You may have heard of prostate milking, sometimes called prostate massage. Doctors occasionally suggest it to men to enhance their prostate health, but it may also be rather enjoyable. If you want a pleasant encounter, you must first find your prostate, often known as a male G-spot, and then use the appropriate equipment.

The purpose of prostate milking is to precisely discharge prostatic fluid. This fluid is always there when you ejaculate, but men frequently have a different sort of orgasm after prostate massage, and the fluid they ejaculate is different.

Whether prostate massage helps you orgasm, it might still be enjoyable. But it isn't the only benefit.

Benefits of Prostate Milking

1. Pleasure: Milking your prostate may be a pleasant experience. It can cause a more intense orgasm, which brings us to our next topic.

2. Several orgasms: Prostate play can help a guy have several orgasms and perhaps stay longer in bed.

3. Intimacy: Some guys are apprehensive to try prostate play, and we will assist you overcome that with this blog post. However, probing the prostate might lead to more closeness between a guy and his lover!

4. Health: There are several health benefits, not the least of which is that many men sit for lengthy periods of time, which compresses and limits blood and oxygen supply. The prostate may become diseased or malignant. Using the prostate helps it stay healthy.

Health Benefits of Prostate Massage

If you have prostatic difficulties, you should visit your doctor before attempting prostate massage.

1. Prostate massage for chronic prostatitis.

Although not scientifically proved, mild massage of the prostate may aid with chronic prostatitis or chronic pelvic pain syndrome (CPPS).

Prostate glands secrete prostatic fluid, which must be ejaculated.  If this does not happen on a regular basis, fluid stagnates, causing irritation. By doing prostate massage, you are milking this glad to eliminate the stored fluid. This helps to drain the prostate gland and seminal vesicles, hence relieving discomfort. You should never do prostate massage if you have an active infection or acute prostatitis.

2. Prostate massage to prevent premature ejaculation

Although premature ejaculation is mostly a psychological disorder, chronic prostatitis can increase it.Ejaculation and orgasm are mostly controlled by the prostate gland. External prostate massage, like pelvic floor muscle training, aids in premature ejaculation.

3. Prostate massage treatment for erectile dysfunction (ED).

Erectile dysfunction is the inability to achieve or sustain an erection for an extended period of time.For many years, prostate massage was the standard treatment for erectile dysfunction before newer treatments such as the penile pump were introduced.Prostate massage eliminates stagnant fluid from the prostate, hence reducing infection. It may also help some people achieve an erection.​

Prepare for Prostate Milking

Now that you're ready to milk the prostate, you should be completely prepared before getting started. This means:

Trim any fingernails.

If you prefer, cover your finger with a glove or condom.

Lubricate your fingertips and anus. A thick, water-based gel will cushion entry. Alternatively, you may use a thinner, silicone-based lubrication to keep things smooth for longer.

Of course, you'll want to be sure you don't have to use the loo, so pee and pooh before you begin. Some folks prefer to go the additional mile and use a douche with lukewarm water on the toilet. You do not need an enema, although some individuals appreciate them for their cleaning and kinky benefits. A douche is unnecessary since the prostate is only about half an inch within, but a douche cleans the whole rectum, where the penis and bigger devices may penetrate.

How to use an anal douche.

Anal douches, like vaginal douches, are ideal for anal sex and play because they remove dirt from hard-to-reach parts of the body. Except in the case of an anal douche, the gadget eliminates contaminants to avoid infection. Because the anal lining is thin, any breaks in its tissue might result in infections. Eliminating dirt might help minimise your chances of contracting an infection. And, because these devices exist in a range of forms and experience levels, they are an excellent alternative for cleansing the anus before intercourse. Using a douche 45 minutes before intercourse allows your rectum time to relax before insertion, ensuring you are prepared.

When buying an anal douche, you should check for the following features:

Spray pattern is an important aspect of any anal douche. Some have a straight spray pattern, while others have a wider spray pattern. A larger spray cleans the anus faster and more effectively, eliminating dirt from the sphincter.

Nozzle Design: Some items employ a simple nozzle, while others include a grooved or beaded nozzle. The grooves offer pleasure to some but might be uncomfortable for others. Meanwhile, the length and breadth of the nozzle might be advantageous to some. Longer, thicker nozzles offer more precise cleaning than shorter, thinner nozzles.

1. Before using, make sure the douche is clean. The tissue in your rectal canal shreds readily, and any dirt on the device increases the probability of infection.

2. Fill the gadget with tepid water. Avoid scolding, cold water, or soapy water. Soap can irritate the anal cavity and result in infections.

3. Lubricate both the douche and the anal chamber.

4. Position yourself over a toilet. Insert the douche into the anal cavity, then press the bulb to discharge the water into the rectum. Squeeze the bulb with ease. Take note of how your body reacts to water before squeezing more into it.

5. Remove the douche and allow the water in your rectum drain into the toilet.

6. Continue the process until the water is clear and free of dirt.

Finding the Prostate

The prostate is internal, however it can be stimulated externally if you aren't ready for penetration.

1. External Prostate Massage.

You can stimulate your prostate through the perineum, which is the tissue between the anus and the balls. This is also referred to as the "taint." Pressing your finger or knuckle hard into this place should stimulate the prostate, which is an excellent technique to do while going down on a man.

2. Internal Prostate Massage.

However, it may be simpler to discover a man's prostate through his anus. Take a deep breath and calm your body before proceeding with the penetration. To help with penetration, press down with your sphincter muscles. The prostate is placed about 2 inches within the anal canal, towards the front of the rectum. An excited prostate is hard and walnut-shaped.

You may have difficulty accessing your prostate with your own fingers with this approach, so enlist the aid of your lover or a toy.

If you're having trouble locating your prostate or getting constant stimulation, try one of these positions. If your spouse is massaging you, use your hands to hold your buttocks or legs apart for easy access to the anus.

1. Lying on your back with your legs in the air: This posture is ideal for partner play and toy insertion. Hold your feet apart and raise your anus off the floor (if you have a partner).

2. Bent over furniture: Find a table, chair, or couch back that is the appropriate height and bend over to examine your prostate! Lift one leg up onto the arm of the chair/sofa or onto the tabletop.

3. Lying on your side is ideal for when you're in bed or on the sofa. Reach behind yourself or behind your legs to stimulate your prostate. Hold one leg up with your hands, or just cock one leg (bend at the knee) to maintain it apart from the other leg.

4. All fours: To make your prostate more accessible, go on your hands and knees. This posture is ideal for penetration by your spouse.​

5. On your front, cock one leg apart from the other (bend at the knee).

Methods for Prostate Stimulation

Digital stimulation is required for prostate milking or massage, and many individuals choose to use their finger pads for this practice. Using the pad eliminates the "poky" sensation that would occur if you used the tip of your finger. Of course, you'll want to avoid scratching with your fingernails, which is why a gloved hand is best for prostate milking, and your nails should be quite short.

Move your finger in the 'come here' motion.

Tap your finger along your prostate or move it slowly outward to see what feels nice and how your body reacts to prostate stimulation. Many men love prostate play on its own, but you may intensify the sensation by stroking your penis with your free hand.

Even though prostate massage feels fantastic, some men do not sustain an erection while receiving it. This is just good.

Signs of Prostate Orgasm

As you rub your prostate, you will notice contractions in your perineum (the region between the anus and the balls).

You will get a feeling of fullness in your urethra, comparable to the need to pee, but don't worry, it is only a sensation; you will not pee. You should keep stroking your prostate since this is not actual orgasm. Inhale and constrict; exhale and relax!

Continued massage might cause contractions to extend to the pelvis and legs. Your entire body will shake as if you were suffering a convulsion, with waves running through your body.

When you approach orgasm, you will feel a warm surge of fluid evacuation from your pelvis via your urethra.

You may not get a comparable orgasm the first time you try. You should keep practicing.

Toys For Prostate Massage

If you're having difficulties reaching your own prostate or delivering hard enough stimulation, here are a few gadgets to consider.

Safety comes first, however. You should never use a toy without a flared base or handle to keep it from slipping inside. This means no bullets or eggs. You may massage your prostate with any flared dildo or vibrator, but toys with a curve will work best. G-spot toys, such as the Pure Wand from Njoy, may be simply programmed for prostate usage. Just make sure to use a condom or a toy made of washable material.

However, there is a whole segment of the sex toy industry dedicated to prostate stimulation, and these devices frequently have unique designs meant to maximise the benefits of prostate massage.

Prostate massagers are sometimes referred to as prostate stimulators, prostate dildos, and P or G spot vibrators. They are effective in the proper form and size, but there are other characteristics that might enhance your experience.

1. Prostate Curve

Most prostate massagers, like G-spot toys, feature a curved and/or bulbous tip that provides powerful P-spot stimulation. In reality, you may use a G-spot toy for prostate massage as long as you take care.

2. Handsfree

Some prostate massagers are designed to stay in position after inserted, allowing you to use them hands-free.

3. Flared base or handle

This is an essential function for your prostate massager. A flared base, such as that found on a butt plug, keeps your toy from slipping inside and becoming misplaced, maybe leading to an embarrassing trip to the doctor!

4. External Stimulation

Toys from Aneros and Nexus contain external arms that stimulate your prostate from the outside while you move the toy with the handle. This can be more powerful than internal stimulation alone, but it must be used with a prostate massager that is appropriate for your anatomy.

5. Prostate Vibrator

Not everyone enjoys the sensation of vibration on his prostate, but some guys do. You can't easily recreate vibration with other toys or your body, so consider adding a vibrating prostate massager to your collection. Additionally, you can always utilise it without the vibration.

The more functions you require, the more pricey your massager may be. However, conducting your homework will help you obtain the best value for your money. Remember that the length and girth of these toys are unimportant for prostate massage because the prostate is positioned near the anus rather than deep in the rectum.

Taking Care Of Your Prostate Massager

Although you may be familiar with how to use and care for a prostate toy, who couldn't benefit from a refresher?

You'll want to apply lots of lubricant. If you want extra cushion, use a thicker water-based lubricant. If you want slickness, use a long-lasting silicone-based lubrication. You may use it on the toy and your behind, or simply the toy. Before using silicone lubricant with a silicone toy, conduct a spot test to ensure that no reaction occurs.

Rigid materials like stainless steel, glass, plastic, and even harder silicone should be handled with caution.

To make cleanup easier, wrap your devices with a condom. After usage, clean with warm water and soap. If you're the only one using the toy, there's no need to sterilise it. Store it in a cool, dry location. Keeping jelly toys in a plastic bag is ideal; otherwise, chemical leaching may occur.

If you intend to switch toys with a lover or another orifice, choose sterile materials like silicone, metal, or glass. You may boil them or spray them with 10% bleach and then rinse them.

Does It Make Me Gay?

There is a common misconception that loving prostate massage or any form of anal stimulation renders a man gay, but this is completely false. Yes, gay guys may love prostate milking more than many straight men, but it's possible that some straight men haven't tried it. And whether you love this behaviour alone or with a straight partner, it is not queer! The enormous energy prior to lift-off, replete with smoke and fire, is equivalent to the pressure and hypersensitivity surrounding the anus moments before you blast your load into space, your lover, or somewhere else.

Many straight guys may never go there for a nice time since they connect anal touch with homosexuality. However, there are many straight singles and couples that provide and receive anal stimulation in various ways. As a result, engaging in anal stimulation does not always imply being homosexual. If you fantasise about having sex with ladies while pulling your penis and probing your anus, you're most likely straight.

Finally, your sexual orientation is considerably less essential than your understanding and acceptance that your body is yours to enjoy!

Ensure the best possible outcome.

Lube is perhaps not more vital than while fiddling with the back door.

When your spouse massages you, communication is equally crucial. Make sure your spouse moves slowly and respects your boundaries.If you're the giver, pay attention to your partner's vocalisation. Follow their movements and look for indications such as tight muscles or a rapid intake of air.Even if you're playing alone, take your time and exercise prudence.

My prostate milking tip can open doors you didn't know existed and lead to tremendous orgasms.